The self-control is the capacity to control all the our emotions.
This is a thing much difficult because for have this capacity we have need of practice.
However every of us can have self-control.
So you don't will have problems to know how behave in every situations.
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Self control is the ability to regulate emotions, actions and behaviour. It's about knowing yourself and being able to quickly return to a calm and centred state of being, should you find yourself unbalanced or uncentred; living a life of proactiveness rather than reactiveness.