- Oct 23, 2018
I struggle with anxiety and depression and today my bf (of whom I trusted and was very patient with) broke up with me. I recently began college class (in Game Art and Design) so I’ve been pretty busy lately with hardly any time for myself. I would notify my bf beforehand and explain what’s been going on, BUT, he takes it as if I’ve been a complete jerk to him. He was “perfect”, “kind”, and a true “gentleman” before until his behavior drastically changed. Now all he ever did was find any little thing to guilt trip me, pointing only my faults and how I’ve been neglecting him. I was never rude to him. He would usually start to fight with me for every little thing. Apparently he was lonely ever since I began university, he didn’t want to wait for me until I was done with my studies yet he expects me to wait for him to make something of his life. (He didn’t finished school and would complain how school is a “drag.”) I would expect him to be supportive and all but instead he just morphed into somebody I don’t know, we’ve been together for about 3 years. Sorry that this is long..but me struggling to open up to at least 1 person was a challenge, and now I lost that person who was once very dear to me. I feel so broken and as if I was the cause of all this. Any advice how to get over this grief.?