- Sep 27, 2015
Hi!So very recently, incredibly out of the blue, the guy i literally thought could be the one ended it with me ( as cliche as that sounds i know). Right now i literally feel so depressed and cannot stop thinking about him, which literally brings me to tears each time. I was wondering if anybody had suggestions of ow to get over this. Quickly. I think the main points that keep dragging me down are the following:
I don't think I've ever connected with anybody else that deeply before, so i literally feel like i will never be able to find somebody else that even comes close to replacing him
I'm incredibly introverted so also the thought of moving on now, finding new friends, and/ or a partner feels horrifying to me. I have very few friends at the moment (I'm english, living in belgium, so all my friends and family are back home).
I just can't get over thinking about him, good or bad. i just feel like i still constantly want to check his Facebook, etc. etc. and just everything seems to remind me of him, or just when i start to think of something new, he will come back into mind. The more i try to avoid this compulsive thinking,t he more it seems to haunt me.
i just want to get on track now, better myself, and develop myself into a better person than i ever was with him. Please help.