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  1. andrewt

    What makes a Relationship successful???

    I think it comes down to acceptance, willingess to understand eachother and a desire to care for the other and his endeavours in life. And of course to "be there" no matter what. And I think a big no-no is to not impose anything on one another. If any of the two does something nice for the...
  2. andrewt

    How Do Empaths Protect Themselves?

    Just don't become so attached to your emotions. Acknowledge them but don't let them ovecome you. Keep the part of you that sucks the energy from them at a distance. I know it does not sound easy and it is not. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. I think self-awareness is the word. Just become...
  3. andrewt

    What do you see/feel/hear during meditation?

    I just start to feel my head in a certain way as if my neurons are more active and more stimulated. I can feel my thoughts more distant and easier to control. I don't see or hear anything in particular. I just feel certain things. Other times when I meditate longer I start to feel my entire body...
  4. andrewt

    What is definition of happiness for you?

    Hapiness is a way of being. And it seems that people make themselves happy thorugh various means, be it responsibility, gratitude, balance, ecstasy, love. For me happiness is that which you feel no matter what you do and no matter what happens to you. And gratitude for being human beings for...
  5. andrewt

    How do you become more aware of yourself?

    Have you ever tried meditating? It may help you be above your compulsive reactions. Autopilot means that you want to always do something for the sake of doing something. Learn to just sit without doing nothing. Try to stay one day with no phone, no internet and see how you feel then. Or at least...
  6. andrewt

    Struggling with Breakup Grief

    You will one day understand that this experience was a boon to you even though it seems liek a disaster now. It will make you stronger and better as a human being. Just because you are now in grief does not mean it is bad in your life. It is bad now but for later it will be something that will...
  7. andrewt

    Heavily undereducated and doubtful of success.

    There are so many things you can try and do and you have so much time in your hands right now. Eighteen you say? I kind of wish to be in your situation right now. 13 years ago when I was your age I didn't even had a computer. I had a school but was of no real help for me. I added one more school...