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    I want kids but my girlfriend doesn't want them... what should I do?

    If you have a real sit down, serious conversation about it and it is clear that she doesn't want children, I would take a break from the relationship. This I imagine is a deal breaker for you, and if you're not sure if it's a deal breaker, I would definitely take some time off the relationship...
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    How to stop desiring women. I'm committed to self-betterment

    Taking medication to lower your libido in my opinion is a terrible idea. Your body is fine, and adding an unnecessary medication is really bad for you. Instead take that energy and learn to focus it on channeling on the project. Think of olympic athletes who are not allowed to release sexual...
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    How do you change your life when you're sick and physically limited?

    And by the way it's not a "disorder" it's lyme disease.
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    How do you change your life when you're sick and physically limited?

    What kind of a response is that? If I'm taking medications, please continue? Seriously, duh you think? Give me a break.
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    New member

    Hi Erwin!
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    Hello everyone !

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    How Do Empaths Protect Themselves?

    I'm an empath. Breathing excercises, visualization, meditation, sage burning, grounding (walking on the earth with bare feet), crystals, etc. I basically do my best to have as much positive healing input in my physical body, my mind and spirit, and let go of anything negative. When I'm out I...
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    How important is spirituality in personal development?

    I think it's important because the people I know of who are successful by society's standards are not happy and have no connection to themselves, those around them or nature. I think spirituality is really about connection with self & other, so without that, there's a missing piece.
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    What lies beyond the boundary of the infinite universe

    Fractals. Never ending Universes :)
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    How Powerful Do you Believe You Are?

    Could humans at one time create without action? - Yes, I believe so without a doubt. As author Graham Hancock says, we are a species with amnesia. Is knowledge being suppressed? - Yes most definitely. Have external factors hindered our ability to do this? - Yes. I believe there are many...
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    Self-Discipline Can Be So Difficult

    There are a few things that help me with self-discipline. One thing is to not overthink things. I also cut the bs with myself as often as possible. I ask myself "what is the attachment here?" or "why is this so hard?" and I get real with myself. I recognize the mental stories and emotions that...
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    How do you change your life when you're sick and physically limited?

    Hey thank you for your reply. I have done some juice cleanses and will continue to do them. I struggle a lot in this area but I'm becoming more disciplined. I have reduced a lot of stress but I'm not able to eliminate all external stresses so this is where I've utilized meditation. I also watch...
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    What Books Are You Reading?

    Awesome thread! I will refer to this to add to my book shelf! I'm currently reading an easy-to-read fiction called My not so perfect life by Sophie Kinsella. It's a chick-lit book and not one of the many personal development or health books that I am usually drawn to but it's a huge victory for...
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    Thoughts of optimisim

    I used to try to think positively and it made me feel worse, and then I found that other people had the same challenge. I then realized that I needed to get to the emotion that was attached to the thought, the story that I was playing in my head. I'm now working in that way which is much more...