Recent content by easysunrise

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    I have a question about looking for a new job.

    Never tell your boss you are looking. When you turn in your notice, give 2 wks notice, and that is acceptable. If you need references, use other people that know you. You put yourself in jepordy with your current job if you tell anyone.
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    How did you cope up with losing a loved-one?

    It is never easy. I recently lost my sister, very fast also. She found out she has cancer, and died within 3 1/2 weeks. For me, I have to think she is with loved ones that have gone on before, and happy and healthy. I keep busy and don't dwell on the loss.
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    What inspires you to be positive?

    It is hard to be positive when there is a lot of stress in your life. I read, when I need a shot of thinking positive. I have several books that remind me, life can and should be beautiful, and it is all in the way I view each day. I also self talk, with positive thoughts. I am not a naturally...
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    Your inner dialog

    I also find I am happier when I am learning and doing positive things. For me being stagnate is a bad sign, it usually means depression. I love to read, that is one of the first things I do to get going.
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    Your inner dialog

    I talk to and answer myself, it's cool, I win every argument. But I find it can be bad, if it is negative, I stress myself out big time. I am the only one that can change that inner dialog. I have to tell myself, relax, relax, take a deep breath, and think thru this.