Recent content by Anthony Docherty

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    How to make a relationship work!

    I think you should never try to change your partner - ever! There is no hard and fast rule to relationships, they take work. I think a successful and happy relationship is one full of love, understanding, acceptance, compromise and forgiveness.
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    3 Tips for Positive Thinking I've Found Helpful

    Great post! It's all how you look at things: Mental Filter When we notice only what the filter allows or wants us to see, we dismiss anything that doesn’t fit. It’s like looking through dark blinkers or ‘gloomy specs’; only catching the negative stuff while anything more positive or...
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    Have You Ever Considered Starting Your Own Business?

    Yes - I have started my own online business and it's the best decision I've ever made. I don't know why I didn't do it sooner!
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    Is Fearing The Fear The Biggest Barrier?

    I was wondering what you thought were the biggest hindrances to people developing, moving forward or starting a new project? I think a lot of people actually 'fear' the fear! It seems to be the biggest hurdle when they try to do something new or change something in their lives, even if that...
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    Surrounding Yourself With The RIGHT People: Be Around Those Who You Wish To Be Alike

    Great post! It's definitely true the people we associate with directly affect our lives and outcomes. Ultimately we are responsible for how our lives are acted out but we make it a lot easier if we seek out positive people who assist us lead more congruent lives. Thanks for sharing!
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    The 4 Most Important Steps to Forgiving Yourself

    Great post Derrick! This is me down to a tee (finding it hard to forgive myself), you also write incredibly well. You're an inspiration and wish you every success! I love your site too! I relate to your story in more ways than one!!
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    If you could change one thing about yourself...

    My anger. I'm trying to improve it and I suppose being aware of it is a first step but I'm finding it difficult. I have an inner rage that swings from 'healthy' anger where I get angry at injustices in the world for example to 'unhealthy' anger where I lose my temper with those close to me due...
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    What is Personal Development?

    I think it is about working towards fully realising your innate potential, directing yourself towards living the life you were born to live. We were all born with gifts, not rising up and using those gifts is a waste so personal development helps you reach out and enter your proper destination...
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    What do you see/feel/hear during meditation?

    I only found meditation recently, I was lucky to find it at a time of intense need actually. I had become dislocated from my true self and was feeling quite unhappy and drinking like a fish to boot. I truly was a lost soul and my mind was a total disaster zone. I do pretty basic stuff, guided...
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    Is it possible to still have faith in God but not in the church?

    100% yes you can. Human Beings are flawed and fallible. A lot of people who claim to be Christian have forgotten the basic teachings of Christ, like love and forgiveness for example, but that doesn't mean you can't have faith in God, in fact, it's one of the reasons to have faith!
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    Get Out of Your Own Way: Putting an End to Self-Sabotaging Behavior

    Great post - I have been guilty of this many times and sometimes I still seem to do it. I get really annoyed at myself!