When it is time for goodbye...

I am a happily married man and I have never entertained the idea of divorce in my entire 7 married years. Our main key is right communication with each other and holding each other with high respect and understanding.

Right now, we have a 50% rate for marriages to get divorce. There are a lot of factors leading to the dissolution of the marriage contract.

For people who have been to divorce, when was the time that you finally decided to say goodbye?

I am not married yet but I do experienced before a bad separation between me and my ex-girlfriend in which I am planned of marrying her that time and we also planned to have a family back then.

For me, it is time to say goodbye when things are really not working out between you too. Especially when one of you doesn't want to work it out anymore, regardless of love if your relationship is too much pressured due to misunderstanding, fights and arguments and most of the time no one between the two don't want to reconcile it is very likely to end as goodbyes. Later on they will find their selves free from a very stressful relationship.

Saying goodbyes doesn't mean you can't be friends with her.

When there are lies and cheating.

When you love someone there's this acceptance in your part in giving him/her a second chance, at some point every relationship deserves a second chance to work it out.

I could agree with that if there was full disclosure about the events that occurred so the relationship could be worked on. Without that there are alot of doubts and if someone lies about something once and gets away with it, why wouldn't they do it again?

It is just between you trust your partner or believing his/her lies.

I believe disclosure in a relationship must take place when abuse and violence has been done. It is really not right to hurt anyone, specially your spouse or your children. When this happens, government and other authorities should be called attention.

I think this solely depends on how much you can handle and probably how much you are willing to sacrifice, you won't easily give up on something that hugely matters to you, and sometimes although it greatly causes us pain we hold on, for some reasons. These reasons may vary of course, but this is a choice we make. Although not greatly discussed, it is not very uncommon to see somebody stoically staying in a relationship full of lies and deceit, you would be coming across people who have been continuously cheated on, and even physically abused.. It is happening and some of us choose to stay, they are not be judged of course since we do not know what reasons they may have, but then again, it is a choice. You choose to stay and if it becomes just too much for you to handle, you choose, but this time probably you choose to say goodbye..

I am married for more than two years and separation never crossed my mind.
We have misunderstandings sometimes but we settled it before the day ends.
I told my husband that if I ever knew that he has a serious commitment with other girl, I will put an end to our marriage. "

I think that it is time to say goodbye if the love is not enough. There is no point holding on if there is no feeling anymore for each other. It could just caused both of the person involves in more hatred and discomforts being together.