So I've been with my fiance for 5 years and we're recently engaged. I feel like we go through these very LONG patches where we just don't click right. For example, I like to go on walks and to the gym and stay in shape, she just wants to sit. I like to try to eat healthy but when I'm on a diet, she orders pizza and eats it in front of me. Our intimate life dies. We don't have anything to talk about during these patches. I feel like I'm constantly trying to better myself in every aspect of life but I can never quite change my relationship bit. Any advice? I'm very curious as to what positive people have to say and what I can do to make this better.