Sometimes holding hands can seem even more romantic than a candle-lit dinner, cause it's way more spontaneous. There's nothing staged about it. I love holding my husband's hand, feeling his hand in mine as we walk along, knowing he is right there by my side for protection and comfort. It's a very soothing feeling.
I always hold hand with my love. I think holding hands is a very personal and intimate gesture, and doing so gives me security and comfort. I am a touchy-feel person as well, so gestures like this, especially spontaneous gestures like this - I find them to be very romantic.
These shared moments make a relationship stronger cause they connect two people with a bond not shared by any other. It's important to take time to walk together, hold hands, cuddle on the couch and watch a movie and share daily affirmations of love.
I agree with you, holding hands with your partner can build trust and security, loyalty and faithfulness to each other. Being held hands with your partner is like a bond between you and him/her. You can feel that the romance is there, the emotions, the love and the needs of care. I love holding my girlfriends hand. But I have a question, What do you think if your partner doesn't want to hold your hands anymore? I mean what are the possible reasons that your partner doesn't want to hold your hands?
@radascars: There are endless reasons why your partner may not want to hold hands with you anymore. She may not be in the mood to do so, she may have a problem which is troubling her, maybe you did something that she doesn't approve of so she's upset - the reasons and possibilities are endless! The best way to know? Talk to her and ask her.
Yeah you're right, the reasons can be endless, but I guess being not in a good mood, and you did something wrong is the best reason why your partner doesn't want to hold your hands. Sometimes asking your partner any reason they tend not to tell it, they want you to figure it out your self.
You can't be expected to read her mind. If she wants you to know why she is angry with you, then she needs to say something. It takes two to tango in a relationship. One person cannot bear the burden alone. With that being said, there's no reason to confront your girlfriend over the matter in a harsh way as that will only make the problem worse. Sweet words in that situation never fails to soothe over hurt feelings.
I hope all people would think that way, but for what I see most of woman tends not to say anything when there's a problem in their relationship some guys also do this. Is really sweet words never fails when one of you is not on the mood to talk?
Always. I love it when my husband and I are holding hands. I feel like this young girl once more, with my prince charming nonetheless. It feels reassuring, warm and loved.
I like this Topi I like this Topic... Yes, I agree that holding hands is romantic. When my hubby visited me in my country, we always holding our hands together every time we go around anywhere. I do love holding his hands as I feel the intense, more love, security, affection and care from him. Holding my hubby's hand makes me feels good and happy.
It's amazing how the simple act of holding hands with a loved one can help strengthen intimacy and security between the partners. Maybe nature designed it this way. The skin on skin contact, even between hands is a bonding experience.
Yes, right. I just told my husband now, I want to hold his hands again . That's why, when we are young our grandfather didn't allow us to holding hands with the opposite sex. It seems like that is an energy from both that will spark when we hold hands, the negative and positive energy collides and produces a different feelings.
I believe there is a Biblical basis for the notion of transferring energy, as those people in early Bible days were instructed to lay their hands upon the sick so that they might recover from illness. Maybe we transfer healing power to another person by simply touching them, even if only on the hand. What do you think?
Right, re: Biblical basis, thank you for reminding us about that. You are right healing flows by laying hands to the sick. I think so, that we can transfer healing power just by touching on the hand but it should be accompanied with faith as well, I guess. Once my pastor preached about the power of the hands. The illustration was quiet simple, its about using our hands in disciplining our children. And stated that our hands can change lives and it can will cause life's destruction as well. There are parents who slap and hurt their children using their own hands, and he emphasizes that what if we will use our hands for comfort, love and care.
Yes, for sure faith is the most important element, even if only as small as a mustard seed can move mountains. I was reading that earlier tonight. And, the hands can be such a comfort, both with our children and with the elderly and the infirmed and the needy and those who have nothing. We can choose to put our hands to a good or evil purpose.
When we were younger, yeah we hold hands often. But now, we can't do that all the time because he is always at work. And at night, we are so tired that we sleep so early. However, during his rest day we make sure to find time for each other.
Hi Cecil! My husband still holds my hands even when we're sleeping. It's kind'a sweet sometimes; sometimes, it's annoying! I love holding hands. For me, the hierarchy goes hugging then kissing then holding hands.
Holding hands is an intimate gesture. I also felt secured every time my husband hold my hand. I wish that we remain romantic and sweet forever...
Haha... You are definitely right. It can be annoying at times when you are not in the mood, or when he do hold my hand and I am busy. Nevertheless, I find it very sweet too. It's the simplest way to make your loved ones feel comfortable and loved.
