I already have two boys ages 3 and 2. I also have another one on the way which is due on October this year. All of them were unplanned and I don't want another child yet. Right now, I am on the stage where I still can't believe I am having another child again. But God gave them to me so I think all I can do is to accept them even if things will be harder. For other parents here, have you experienced this as well? How do you cope up in this kind of situation?