Best Use of Time
Its
about time!
Whats
this article about? Its about TIME! Its about time
I wrote about time again. After all, its our most precious
commodity. As Ben Franklin wrote, its the stuff life is
made of. And because its a nonrenewable resource, it has
unlimited value. Yet, dont we sometimes kill time? When
we do so, arent we murdering life? When we waste time,
arent we committing suicide in slow motion? Why do we guard
our possessions from thieves, but think nothing of the thieves
that steal our time (life)? Those thieves are our own bad habits,
which cause us to waste time. Isnt it time we stopped spending
our time the way politicians spend our money?
Normally, we
dont reap a reward unless we first exert some effort. My
garden doesnt just burst into bloom, first I have to water,
fertilize, and care for it. Time represents an exception to this
rule. Without any effort on my part, as soon as I wake up in
the morning, another 24 hours are bestowed on me. Imagine, each
day our cups are magically filled with 86,400 seconds for us
to do with as we will. Each second is filled with promise. Each
moment is a dab of paint that we apply to the canvas of our lives.
How can we
take advantage of our daily allotment of time? A good way to
begin is by avoiding the following common mistakes.
1. Thinking
theres lots of time. Never be misled by the number
of days in a year. Their number merely represents the time that
is potentially available to us. If it is misspent or wasted,
it all comes to nothing. What if you were told you had one hour
to live? Wouldnt you believe you had very little time?
Is there much difference between an hour and a day? A day and
a week? A week and a month? A month and a year? A year and a
decade? A decade and a lifetime? Understanding how little time
we have available is the beginning of wisdom.
2. Not valuing
time. It would be wise to heed the words of Peter F. Drucker, "One
cannot buy, rent or hire more time. The supply of time is totally
inelastic. No matter how high the demand, the supply will not
go up. There is no price for it. Time is totally perishable and
cannot be stored. Yesterdays time is gone forever, and
will never come back. Time is always in short supply. There is
no substitute for time. Everything requires time. All work takes
place in, and uses up time. Yet most people take for granted
this unique, irreplaceable and necessary resource." Unless
we value ourselves, how can we value time?
Of what value
is diamond ring, unless we occasionally pause to appreciate its
beauty? If we wear it unaware, we might as well be blind. As
the sands of time slip between our fingers, shouldnt we
be enjoying its grainy texture and glitter? Like diamonds, time
has value because of its scarcity. When Henry Twells (1823~1900)
reflected on the value of time, he wrote, "When as a child
I laughed and wept, time crept. When as a youth I waxed more
bold, time strolled. When I became a full-grown man, time RAN.
When older still I daily grew, time FLEW. Soon I shall find,
in passing on, time gone." Lydia H. Sigourney (1791 ~ 1865)
had this to say, "Lost, yesterday, somewhere between sunrise
and sunset, two golden hours, each set with sixty diamond minutes.
No reward is offered for they are gone forever."
3. Not realizing
today is the most important day. What moment can be more important
than the present moment? "One of the illusions of life is
that the present hour is not the critical, decisive hour." writes
Ralph Waldo Emerson. He continues, "Write it on your heart
that every day is the best day in the year. No man has learned
anything rightly, until he knows that every day is Doomsday." To
which Seneca (BC 3 ~ 65 AD) adds, "We let go the present,
which we have in our power, and look forward to that which depends
upon chance, and so relinquish a certainty for an uncertainty."
4. Squandering
time. Why do we squander time? Its almost as if we are
afraid we will wear out if we keep busy. But it isnt the
moving gear that gets rusty. Instead of passing time, why not
spend time. If we use it like money, squeezing out maximum value
for each cent and moment spent, we will enrich our lives. John
F. Kennedy also offered good advice: "We must use time as
a tool, not as a couch."
5. Trying to
manage time. We mean well when we try to manage time, but think
about it for a moment, how can we manage it? Can we expand or
compress it? Time is inflexible. There is nothing we can do about
it. It is merely the measure of passing events. So, it is not
time that we should be focusing on, but the events themselves.
For when we control the events, we control our lives. If we neglect
our tasks, they will pile up and we will find that we will have
emergencies to cope with. Spending the day putting out fires
is both stressful and unproductive. We can regain control over
our lives by getting into the habit of performing our tasks as
soon as they arise. And we value time by doing the important
stuff first. The unimportant can be done later, if time remains.
6. Some other
mistakes. Dont seek to live a longer life, but seek to
live a fuller life. For as Thomas Fuller (1608 ~ 1661) wrote, "He
lives long that lives well, and time misspent is not lived, but
lost." If you run out of time, it is not because of insufficient
time, but insufficient willpower. We can always find the time
to do what we want to do. The trick is to learn to want to do
what is best for us. If you are unsatisfied with the current
state of affairs, dont believe time will change things,
for it is not time but YOU that are the architect of your future.
We must take responsibility for our own lives.
Do you know
what time it is? Its later than you think! To get the most
out of life, lets remember that everything in it takes
longer to do than we expect. The only exception is life itself,
which is shorter than we anticipate. So, lets make the
best use of time and measure it by the good we do. For it is
then that time becomes sacred and we come to know, as Jean Paul
Richter (1763~1825) did, that "Time is the chrysalis of
eternity."
© Chuck Gallozzi
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